It will soon be a year since I last posted an article on this site. I have kept an eye on it, but finding the time to write (or the mental energy) was an entirely different story. I decided to be good to myself and focus on what was happening in my life, without stretching … More Bubbles in the Back Yard, an Update and Future Projects
So we went to Provence. Yes, the Provence of Van Gogh, of the bridge of Avignon, of the Palace of the Popes, of all the other painters and artists who have ever lived there, of the lavender and poppy fields, of the smells and the food and the watermills. That Provence. If someone had told … More Perspective: the cure for the common disappointment
This expression, “the haves and the have nots”, usually refers to money. But it struck me today that I have been a “have not” for decades in so many unjust, narrow, obsessive ways that the world around me must have banged its metaphorical head against the wall practically daily with frustration. Let me explain… We … More How to cultivate abundance – or how I decided to be among the “haves” after spending years as a “have not”
I have to admit it – though, please, not in public and especially not in front of my kids: I am a scaredy cat. I get frightened very, very easily. There are good days and bad days and on a bad day my mind races to find horror images of… whatever happens to scare me … More Emotional Alchemy: How to turn fear into a springboard to growth and joy
These splendid flowers grow wild on the side of the road here in the Belgian countryside where I live. I took the picture last year, on a road in the back of our house. The poppies are back nowadays, as majestic as before. Constant, stable, majestic beauty. They start sprouting somewhere in May, when the … More Do you have eyes for the beauty right in front of you?
If someone had told me five years ago that in a few short months I would be cooking almost every day and, moreover, I would start BAKING CAKES, I would have laughed and said “You certainly have the wrong person!” But lives change and so do tastes – in food, clothes and things to do. … More Persistence and Unexpected Joys = Recipe for Satisfaction
Isn’t this picture awesome? I love the expression on the duck’s face… which is entirely my own interpretation, as ducks don’t really “make faces” or have expressions. But I like to imagine that from the gesture you can actually feel the “energy” of the feeling that animates it – it’s fun, it’s playful, it’s pure … More Optimism: not buying into any “I can’t”.
‘t is that time of the year – the time to be jolly, to be happy and to be looking for presents. Lots and lots and lots of presents. With lots and lots and lots of presents come lots and lots and lots of cardboard boxes. Especially if you do your holiday shopping on Amazon. … More What do you do with all that cardboard from Amazon?
If you are happy with your financial situation and money is your friend… first of all, congratulations. Secondly, this article is not for you. This post is for those of us who are still working through “money issues”. I don’t know about you, but the mere thought of “money” makes me cringe a little. It … More Happy money and other anomalies (with 10 book recommendations)
It is not simply money that I want, it is money AND good feelings, like pride, satisfaction, growth and contentment. I could have “money” (or anything else) but not feel good about it so in the end… the pot must be filled with good feelings or it’s worthless. The great news is that the good … More The pot of good feelings at the end of the rainbow